Laws of Attraction (My Version)

I've been thinking a lot about this lately. Eversince one of my old friends opened the topic that maybe, I should lower my standards a bit when it comes to men. Which as far as I and my other girlfriend is concerned shouldn't be the case. I don't want to settle for anyone less that what I think I should get and which I rightly deserve. Well, maybe that came out wrong, I just have a very strong image of how my man should be like, just like when I discussed the main thing that starts the spark of attraction within my head a few months back when I was still...err...let's say "dating" for the lack of appropriate term.

My friend told me that the type of guy I'm looking for is either so hard to find or is always within reach of every other eligible girl. So what?! The more challenge the better I guess. Point is, I won't lower my standards. I did that and it didn't work. Everything fell short of everything else. I was with someone who can't control me, who can't keep up with me, who can't seem to see the same goals I see.

I need someone who's driven, who sees the world as something to be conquered and controlled. I need someone who has a very strong personlity, someone who won't be drowned by my presence when we're together. I need someone who's trustworthy and reliable, someone with a concrete plan for himself which includes me. I always have a goal and that person whould have one as well. I don't want to wander aimlessly, I don't want to be in the shadows, I don't want to wait for someone to take over my life just so that something would happen. I don't believe in that! I need someone who can move fast and accurate.

In the dance of love and relationship, I need a guy who's an avid dancer. Someone who can glide with the music effortless, carrying me like a feather in his arms. Sweeping across the dancefloor, marking every single foothold, claiming it as ours. The dancefloor is conquerable after all, just like the world, and I need someone who can lead me there.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for someone with power or money. Definitely not a politician, not necessarily a business mogul, not Bill Gates for sure! I just need someone who has a dream, the grandest attainable dream he can have, and who has the capacity to actually make the dream come true. That's all I want. A visionary, a dreamer who can make things a reality. An achiever of some sorts who can make the most secluded want an entirely tangible experience.

See, I don't need to lower my standards any bit. It's just perfect!